Shuru se shuru karein ❤

    Celebrating our own incompleteness❤
  
 "We're all a little broken. That's how the light gets in."

   There are flaws in all of us. We're always seeking for ourselves to be the better, more competent version. In that constant argument with the self, we often disregard our uniqueness. Those flaws, whichever they are, they make us. They inspire us to be better, then how are they supposed to be called "flaws" ? Today by the end of this blog, I want all the readers to not use the word "flaw". Even a little practice in some pertinent time would matter. 

   Every morning we get up and get going. Goals to meet, situations to conquer and people to win over. And if we can't do that in any given duration, we declare ourselves as failures, shockingly, before anyone else does. We do not like to depend or take some help from any entity in an area we might not be excelling in. There's this barrage to be proved that "I am self dependent, I am self sufficient and I do not need any assistance whatsoever". Even if we see those weaknesses peeping in the work we do, we keep doing it to just prove a point. And those who take help, are made to feel crippled. 

  That's where the disparity lies. Incompleteness is not asking for help, incompleteness is not acknowledging the fact that we need help. Being complete actually is the acceptance of being incomplete. The scope of positive development lies therein. Helping each other, faltering on the way quite a few times, not giving up and giving each other hopes all the way along - this sounds more pleasant than winning every goal single handedly and later realising that nothing of the journey meant to be a competition or a fight to the finish. 

  From needing help in the smallest of tasks to the biggest ones, it is beautiful to ask for it and even more to say a yes to the seeker. Starting from the absolute zero level with no expectations and even minutely  possible help makes everything easier. Being co-dependent is nothing negative. It just makes the journey more beautiful and the destination reachable. And when we succeed,  we have our weaknesses to celebrate and even more so, with the people having some other flaw who cared a lot to help us. Life is a learning process and this fact is testimonial to it. 

  One can never start walking to a positive goal with loads of negativity on the back. Preparing for the best might yield some thorns in the way, but with our incompleteness, optimism and some angels disguised as helpers along the way, we can ward the troubles away with ease. Helping each other in reaching to the goals in spite of all the minor traits stopping us, is one of the most beautiful lessons life can teach us. 

  Main Akela hi chalaa tha jaanib-e-manzil magar
 Log saath aate gaye aur kaarwaan banntaa gayaa ⭐

  Let's celebrate the fact that we need help and see God put forth the best way possible. 

  Shuru se shuru karte hain. Chaliye, Zero se shuru karte hain. 

 Lots of love and always a helper,
Naisargi 💫

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